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An alternative to tension and fear
The fear of water is always conditioned reaction
or an attitude, which has been learned at some early point
in life. In the Aquabalancing relaxation group you learn how
to shortcut these reactions and go straight into the pleasure
of enjoying to relax and to feel the security of the element.
In a sense this method is more than therapy.
It is not necessary to know what has caused the fear. As
the person works with her/his voice under the water s/he finds
it so pleasant that the tension and the fear lose their control
over the situation. The tension and the fear are neither analysed
nor repressed, instead another alternative to them is presented.
By exploring the voice within the person’s own limits
of how deep into the water s/he immerse, s/he learns to respect
her/his own limits. The result is a natural removal of restricting
limits; the immersion becomes deeper. The simultaneous sensation
of tension, fear and pleasure gives a freedom of choice, which
was not there before. This freedom of choice is the key to
conscious work under the water. It is now possible to look
for even more pleasant experiences instead of constantly fight
with tension or fear. It is no use to use willpower to fight
tension, fear or any emotion. The tension always wins against
willpower.
Sink before you learn to float
It is easier to learn to float if you first get familiar
with the sensation of sinking. The first stage in the relaxation
group is to get deeper than the surface. After the sinking
experience being floated around carried by one or many persons
is a pleasant and calming experience comparable to a sensation
of being in empty space.
The people in the group learn to know each others in a different
way not using words, only physical contact. This creates communication
on a deeper feeling level than people are used to. For groups
it is a powerful method to create a strong team spirit.
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